In the course of marriage, somehow, women tend to develop the tendency of controlling their husbands without realizing it. They offer “helpful” suggestions to their husbands in the name of improving their lives. They tell their husbands what to do, where to go, how to do it etc. Sounds familiar? Of course, this not only kills intimacy in a marriage, it also drives husbands further apart, or even worse, to the other woman.
When you dominate a man, he starts treating you like you are one of them and it makes him feel less of a man. Remember, opposite poles attract and like poles repel. When he treats you like a man, he will be less inclined to bring you flowers, have romantic candle light dinners with you. I am sure this is not what we want, as women.
This video will remind you of your God given innate feminine essence - something you can draw strength from in your marriage. The idea is to compliment your husband’s masculine energy. Think of it like ballroom dancing, with him taking the lead.
It will remind you that you don’t have to be in charge of everything and you can trust your husband enough to let him run the show. When you do this, he will rise up to your expectations. It is called the Pygmalion effect. It is guaranteed to bring out his macho side. The end result? Call it self serving, but we want a satisfying marriage, don’t we?
