Marriage Healing Tool

What we see and hear affects our thoughts and feelings, that is why media advertisements have the ability to influence us. Can you remember the last time you saw infomercials - that beauty product that Cindy Crawford uses to keep herself looking young? Weren't you tempted to buy it?

Your marriage has its own attractor energy field that influences your marriage. Think of how iron filings behave on a piece of paper with a magnet underneath it.

The purpose of the marriage healing tool is to help you visualize a positive attractor energy field surrounding and influencing your marriage. When played again and again, it has a powerful ability to influence your thoughts, attitude and behavior and hence the attractor field in your marriage. It is a practical tool for activating the law of attraction to work in the favor of your marriage.

Here's how you can use it.

Simply state what you want to eliminate in your life. Eg. negative beliefs, negative emotions, self defeating patterns, single word eg "hatred", really the sky is the limit.

When you eliminate something, it is best that you replace it with something positive, as you might have probably heard before, nature abhors a vacuum. Then simply state what you prefer. Eg. Empowering belief, empowering patterns, whatever you want to attract.

It is best that you do it again and again for best results. Repetition is the key to impressing a new reality upon your sub-conscious mind.

True Story

One client of mine who tested the tool for me, actually used the positive preference statement "X (her husband) loves me". She said that she did this as a form of experiment, just for the fun of it. I personally would not have favored such a statement, but I was thinking with the rational mind. What happened next baffled her, she said her husband came back home after work that day, and was cornering her to give her hugs. On reflection, she said that she also changed her energy and behavior to reflect the "He loves me" reality, without her realizing it. She also added that she started recalling some of the emotions she felt when she first met him. It seemed like her husband was influenced by and reacted to her thoughts. She mentioned that when she used the tool, she felt the meaning behind the words as she stared at them towards the end.

This story really awaken me to how much our thoughts, both positive and especially the negative, affect our spouse. In the Physics of Love section, I have more articles on this. 

You might also wish to look at videos of how prayer affects yourself and your marriage.

POINTS TO BEAR IN MIND AS YOU ARE USING THE TOOL

- Your thoughts create reality.

- Every thought has a frequency. Physicists tell us that thoughts of a higher frequency (unconditional love) affects thoughts of lower frequency (anger, resentment, apathy, hatred)

- Feelings magnify thoughts.

- I tell you the truth, if anyone says to this mountain, "Go throw yourself into the sea," and does not doubt in his heart but believes that what he says will happen, it will be done for him. - Mark 11:23

- "Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see," (Heb. 11:1)

-Repeated thoughts result in manifestation.

















RELATED LINKS:

Videos of how prayer affects yourself and your marriage.

How to use of Prayer, Visualization and Affirmations for your marriage

How to save your marriage using the law of attraction. 

STORIES SUBMITTED VIA EMAIL:

"I decided to use this tool and I observed something really curious. Was I imagining? You tell me! You see my roommate not my hubby and I had this great, big, huge misunderstanding. I tried to explain to him my point of view but he just would not listen. Men! Arrrgh! I was surfing the net looking for some communication help because I did not want to be kicked out. I stumbled upon your website. I decided to give this tool a go even though it was a marriage tool. I stated my preference as being from MISUNDERSTANDING to DIVINE GRACE because that word is all over your prayer page. Little did I realize that grace would really permeate between us! When he came back home he cooked me dinner! Men are wonderful! I just thought I would let you know...Bless you." - Kath D.

I then corresponded with her to ask what was the difference that made the difference in her, to which she replied:

"I really felt Grace flooding the space between me and my roommate. I spent about 2 minutes in that moment as I focused on the words DIVINE GRACE in the video and I really felt the field of Grace. How shall I put it ... it was comforting, peaceful.  Hope that answers."