How To Save Your Relationship Try These Counterintuitive Techniques That Work!We know what you're going through and the information put together here is based on helping you avoid the wrong move. Author of The Magic Of Making Up, T W Jackson says one of the keys is to think counter-intuitively. That is, do the exact opposite of what you're thinking of doing. Confused? In other words, if you're thinking of calling your ex then don't. Instead, play it cool and step back from the urge. One of the techniques in the Magic Of Making Up book taught by Jackson is to agree with the break up no matter how hard it is and just simply accept the fact that you've broken up. Now before you click away in the disgust think about why you would do this. This is the complete opposite to what you really want to do isn't it. It's because your ex is upset with you and the relationship at the moment. They are unhappy with something. By leaving them alone and confirming their decision you are giving them the time they need and you need for them to respect and miss you again. If you didn't like the first suggestion then this second one may cause some concern. Basically, cut off all communication with your ex. Now before you click the back button hear me out. This is coming from someone who has been there before and a major reason why the Magic Of Making Up is so successful. This technique serves a two-fold process. It helps you in overcoming the trauma of the initial break up as well as giving your ex time to miss you again. Time heals all wounds...maybe not but in this situation, providing you didn't do something despicable, then there is a chance it will prevail. But if you are going to continually remind your ex of that you are around then they will never get the chance to get over the reasons why they broke up with you in the first place. The Magic Of Making Up is a collection of proven techniques and strategies for men and women and a refreshing breath of air in the art of how to get your ex back. |