A Look At Why You May Have Been Dumped

Why do people break up? It's almost an open ended question isn't it and the simple answer is - for various reasons.

Okay, that's the best I can do but if you're reading this and currently scratching your head about why you were turfed out of your relationship, then it's important to realize that apart from the bleeding obvious, such as an abusive or a cheating relationship, reasons for breaking up sneak up on spurned partners like stealth.

It simply may be time for you to just "take five" and go over several things about your relationship and whether you could have done it better. In fact, the break up may have just been a warning shot to shake you into reality.

Yes, it's not what you want to hear but more often than not, break ups often turn out to be a blessing in disguise.

In this article, we'll take a look at some of the things which could have affected your relationship over a period of time so you can start working on getting your ex back .

Are You Guilty Of These Mistakes

1. Did you get comfortable in your relationship? In other words, the danger of getting comfortable without maintaining some order of intimacy happens but many don't see it.

2. Did you take your partner for granted? Yes, this is a "biggie" and can erode a partnership over time.

3. When was the last time you actually paid your partner a compliment? Again, this ties in with the first two points and is so important. Many relationship experts even suggest doing this on a daily basis as hard as it may seem on occasions but it's such a powerful element of maintaining strong bonding between two people.

4. Did you overly criticize your partner? In many ways, this can be a form of abuse and again, over time, it's like an acid which will eventually eat away and break down the love one person has for the other.

5. How are your levels of communication? Do you still talk to your partner like you used to?

6. Did you stop having fun with each other? Was it just as easy to skip going out like you used to and "plump" yourself in front of the TV because you were too tired? Did you stop surprising him/her and did you become too predictable taking all the mystery out of the relationship?

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