1. Your husband thinks
that there is nothing wrong with him. All that has gone wrong with the marriage
is entirely your fault.
2. You feel frustrated because any self-help resource that you read to save your
marriage is made light of and disregarded by your husband.
3.
You feel alone in your
battle to save your marriage. It is an uphill struggle. At the moment, you can't see light at the end of the
tunnel.
You feel hopeless, powerless and desperate.
4. You seem to be walking on eggshells at times.
5. Sometimes you wonder if you did not fight to keep the marriage, he would walk
out on you anytime. Or it may be that he has already walked out on you.
6. Your husband probably has said "I love you but I am not in love with you."
7. He
is emotionally distant. It makes you feel insecure.
7. Sometimes self-help
books suggest how your "marriage" should be. Now, "you
+ your husband = marriage". So, when you read about how your
marriage should be, you cannot help but feel resentful towards your husband for not
fulfilling his part of the deal in achieving this marriage ideal. You may tell yourself, "If only he listened
and behaved according to the recommendations of these marriage experts, then it would make
the job of saving my marriage easier". This
might prompt you to control, manipulate, nag and plead with your husband.
However, in doing so, you inadvertently drive him away.
If you find yourself in situations such as the above, then you are far better
off using spiritual tools. This is because spiritual tools are inherently
non-interfering in nature and therefore, they tend to work more effectively when your
husband is not actively participating in saving your marriage with you. Of course, that is not to say
that psychological tools will not help you. I combine both
to get the best outcome.
save
your marriage technique 1:
Improve communication in your marriage.
Communication is more than just about following a set of
protocols pertaining to listening and responding in a calm manner. For instance,
using a technique that triggers a resourceful state in me, I have made leaps and
bounds with my ability to communicate with my partner.
save
your marriage technique 2:
Drive third-party away.
I once thought that this was impossible or
inappropriate. Then again, your sacred marriage vows dictate that you
have the first right to your spouse. I know of several people who have
used this secret technique experience miracles. Not only did they drive the
third-party away, they also improved their marriage to a whole new level. You
can even use this technique to protect your marriage. If you are thinking
that this is some sort of love spell, then you have come to the wrong place! Even
seemingly 'harmless' spells are dangerous and they do not originate from God.
save
your marriage technique 3:
Expressing love energetically
from a soul level, as opposed to forced, superficial expressions of love.
Bring back that “in love” feeling again.
Look under the NLP section for
this technique.
save
your marriage technique 4:
Attract your spouse back to you.
This can be achieved through using the same afore-mentioned
technique. Yet again, this is not a love spell. The problem with love spells is that you will never know if
the person comes back to you because he really loves you or because he is just
responding against his will to a spell.
save
your marriage technique 5:
Learn what makes your
husband loyal to you
and only you.
I am talking about behavioral
techniques here. I know of one technique that is often overlooked by
women, and yet it is so simple to use! I have come across several
marriages that have broken down because the women downplayed the importance of
this technique.
save your marriage technique 6:
Dissolve barriers and break unconscious
patterns that prevent you from forming lasting, loving relationships, once and
for all.
In order to work on your marriage, you may need to work
on some aspects of yourself. However, using willpower alone may not bring about
the desired results. Thus, I will direct you to tools that can enable you to
make the necessary changes at a deeper unconscious level as this tends to effect
more potent results.
save your marriage technique 7:
Regain self-worth, self esteem and
confidence in yourself, from within. Feel empowered in the process.
This is a natural by product of working on
yourself. Having a healthy self esteem influences every other area of your life,
in addition to your marriage - finances, health, children and career.
save your marriage technique 8:
Work on your marriage right
away to see real, lasting results, even if you are the only one working on it.
I designed the Marriage Core Innergization
process with the intention that it would be utilized by a single party. It is a
compilation of both behavioral and non-denominational spiritual tools written in
"DIY coaching" style.
save your marriage technique 9:
Dealing with the root cause is more
effective than dealing with symptoms.
The techniques to save your marriage featured here were the result of my own
experience and those from my coaching. I am giving a lot of these save marriage
techniques away for free here because I hope that the information will benefit
as many people as possible, as much as it has benefited me.
I was inspired to share this information
after having a failed marriage, and several other relationships after that, that
did not work, because I was doing many things wrong and doing them again and
again without conscious control. I used to read lots of marriage advice
books, but they did not give the the results that I wanted. My relationships
would improve temporarily and then relapse. The changes that effected were
rather superficial. I finally realized that I was not targeting the spiritual,
causal realm in working on my relationship issues.
That gave rise to self-compiled integrated
therapy of both spiritual and behavioral tools (you do need
both) for saving marriage that worked beautifully for me and lots of women I
have coached, called the
Marriage Problem Solving Co-Creation with Spirit Process. It is designed to coach you in your
marriage healing process and to save your marriage. It is the culmination of years of effort,
time, experimentation, research and not to mention, a hefty expenditure, that
resulted in my own self-healing journey.
The reason why I compiled my own
marriage rescue information here is because I found it hard to find a place
where there was a compilation of a variety of behavioral and non-denominational
spiritual tools
specifically for married women. I also got
so confused with the various tools and I found no resources that helped
integrate the tools for my own healing and self-coaching purpose - so I
integrated them myself and the result of that was Marriage Problem Solving
Co-Creation with Spirit Process. I hope it helps you save your marriage.
Why save
your marriage at spiritual level?
The Physics of
Love -- How it holds the secret to saving your marriage alone.
Knowing this information helps you understand what you are doing at a deeper
level, whether it is prayer, visualization or affirmations. It also helps you
understand how you can be unconsciously destroying your marriage. Also, do learn
how the law of attraction can help save your marriage.
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Difference in Saving Your Marriage
SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE FOR WOMEN - POWER TOOLS
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(1) Self Healing
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(2) Change
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