Save Your Marriage. Stop Your Divorce, Marriage Advice:: Loving Spirit - Marriage Rescue is designed for women by a woman to provide practical, spiritual (non-denominational) solutions to save your marriage, especially if you are working on saving your marriage alone. l mean result oriented, practical solutions to save your marriage alone - not just loads of well meaning, psycho-analytical, marriage  advice that are feel good but hard to put into action. And believe me, only a woman can understand what another woman goes through in saving a  marriage alone!!

"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." – Albert Einstein

1. Your husband thinks that there is nothing wrong with him. All that has gone wrong with the marriage is entirely your fault. Let's admit it, most men are too proud to admit that they are wrong at anything anyway.

2. Any self-help material that you read to save your marriage is pooh-poohed by your husband. They believe that they are several cuts above it all. Cool, eh?

3. Sometimes self-help material tell you how the "marriage" should be. Now, "you + your husband = marriage". So, when you read about how things should be in your marriage, you cannot help but in your heart criticize your husband for not fulfilling his part. You may tell yourself, "If only he behaves a little more like what they say, then it makes my job of saving the marriage easier". Then you go on and persuade your husband to act in the recommended way. Of course this only drives him further apart and he is certainly not going to save your marriage with you.

4. You think that you are in control of the entire situation. So when things do not work out as the self-help material suggests, you feel that you are losing control. So you compensate by attempting to control your husband even more. Even resort to begging and pleading. Does not work. Period.

I soon realized that spiritual tools worked far better especially when you are a woman who has to save your marriage alone. Spiritual tools are inherently non-interfering in nature, therefore, they tend to work far better when your husband is not actively saving your marriage with you. Of course, that is not to say that psychological tools will not help. I combine both, but generally tend to start with spiritual tools first.  

Sidenote: Please note that when I use the term "spiritual", I am not meaning it in a religious context. Spiritual means your own connection with a Higher Source/Spirit/Higher Self/Infinite Intelligence (whatever YOUR source is).

save your marriage technique 1:

Improve communication in your marriage.

If you think that communication is about following a set of protocols of listening and responding in a calm manner, think again. I am talking about improving communication using a spiritual technique. Using this technique I have made leaps and bounds with my ability to communicate with my partner. It is incredibly easy and I wonder why nobody has mentioned it before, at least specifically in the context of relationships.  

save your marriage technique 2:

Drive third-party away.

I once thought that this was impossible or inappropriate. Then again, your sacred marriage vows dictate that you have the first right to your spouse. Fair? I know of several people who have used this secret technique, experience miracles. Not only did they drive the third-party away, they also improved their marriage to a whole new level. You can even use this technique to protect your marriage. No, if you are thinking this is some sort of love spells, then you have come to the wrong website! This technique is based on love.

save your marriage technique 3:

Bring in passion and love energetically, from soul level, as opposed to forced, superficial expressions of love.

          Again, this not hard if you know the right tools. 

save your marriage technique 4:

Bring back that “in love” feeling again.

          Look under the NLP section for this technique.

save your marriage technique 5:

Attract your spouse back to you.

Using the same afore-mentioned technique, which is love based, this can be done. Yet again, it is not a love spell. You can do it with a clear conscience and not feel guilty afterwards. The problem with love spells, according to my opinion anyway, is that you will never know if the person really loves you, even if they come back to you.

save your marriage technique 6:

Learn what makes your husband loyal to you and only you.

OK here I am talking about behavioral techniques. I know of one technique that is often overlooked, especially by women, and yet it is so simple to put into practice! I have come across several marriages that broke down just because they overlooked this simple technique.

save your marriage technique 7:

Dissolve barriers and break unconscious patterns that prevent you from forming lasting, loving relationships, once and for all.

To work on any marriage, you need to work on yourself. Using willpower alone? No way! That is just plain too hard. If we were masters of willpower, we would have figured it all by now. I will direct you to tools that can break your unconscious patterns at root causal level. Doing this will energetically influence the spiritual realm surrounding you and this in turn, will influence your marriage for the better.

save your marriage technique 8:

Regain self-worth, self esteem and confidence in yourself, from within. Feel empowered in the process.

When you work on yourself, this naturally happens. It affects all other areas of your life, even money and health and not just your marriage. What a bargain!

save your marriage technique 9:

Work on your marriage right away to see real, lasting results, even if you are the only one working on it.

Wish to save marriage but husband will not? In fact, I am assuming that you are not surfing this website with your spouse and therefore are the only person working on your relationship. I designed the Marriage Core Innergization process, having this in mind. It is a compilation of both behavioral and non-denominational spiritual tools written in "DIY coaching" style. I describe more about this process in greater detail below.

save your marriage technique 10:

• Heal your marriage at the root causal level?

• Heal issues that you are facing personally at the root causal level?

The emphasis here is root causal level. We all want emotional freedom, don't we? Enough baggages.

The techniques to save your marriage featured here were the result of my own experience of saving marriage alone and those from my coaching. I am giving a lot of these save marriage techniques away for free here because I hope that the information will benefit as many people as possible, as much as it has benefited me and also due to the encouragement of people whom I have coached.

I was inspired to share this information after having a failed marriage, and several other relationships after that, that did not work, because I was doing many things wrong and doing them again and again without conscious control. I used to read lots of marriage advice books, but they did not give the the results that I wanted. My relationships would improve temporarily and then relapse. The changes that effected were rather superficial. I finally realized that I was not targeting the spiritual, causal realm in working on my relationship issues.

That gave rise to self-compiled integrated therapy of both non-denominational spiritual and behavioral tools (you do need both) for saving marriage that worked beautifully for me and lots of women I have coached, called the Marriage Problem Solving Core Innergization Process. It is designed to coach you in your marriage healing process and to save your marriage. It is the culmination of years of effort, time, experimentation, research and not to mention, a hefty expenditure, that resulted in my own self-healing journey.

The reason why I compiled my own marriage rescue information here is because I found it hard to find a place where there was a compilation of a variety of behavioral and non-denominational spiritual tools specifically for married women. I also got so confused with the various tools and I found no resources that helped integrate the tools for my own healing and self-coaching purpose - so I integrated them myself and the result of that was The Core Innergization Process. I hope it helps you save your marriage.

You see, I had a fair share of dealing with coaches that were not right for me and after a while, I gave up trying to find answers from someone else. I realized that the most accurate, soul-revealing answers often came from myself, even though I spent much, much more money when I sought outside help.

I also found that most relationship self-help bank on will-power primarily to bring about changes in order to save your marriage. Let’s face it, that can be very hard, especially if you have a lot on your plate and very often, we all do – a demanding job, kids, finances, in-laws, our own issues etc etc. What Loving Spirit - Marriage Rescue brings you instead, is resources that can bring about effective changes energetically to save your marriage, in the spiritual realm, and thus is less dependent on willpower alone. I've also listed other distinguishing save your marriage techiniques that this website brings you and I sincerely hope that this will made a genuine difference in your life. All you need is an open mind.

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SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE FOR WOMEN - My contribution and commitment to you   

My commitment to women saving marriage alone is this:

• Provide tried and tested resources to help you in your marriage healing journey and to save your marriage.

• Provide resources for you to build a stronger marriage.

• Help women find their own answers. Nothing in the whole wide universe is more empowering than the answers that come from your own inner wisdom!

• Provide tools and resources for you to evolve as a human being in your own right. Find your inner strength.

Coming soon!

• A support network for women saving marriage alone. I am in the process of building this and I am intending it to be set up by the end of 2007.

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