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Marriage Healing/Healing Relationships using Alternative Modalities - Chakra Chart, Reiki etcChakra Chart, Chakra Healing, Reiki and other alternative tools for marriage/relationship healing: Alternative therapies can be very effective in marriage healing/healing relationships holistically and energetically. Suitable therapies for marriage healing/healing relationships are Reiki, Crystal Healing, Chakra Healing (See Chakra Chart below) and Color Breathing. The Reiki Healing Meditation serves specifically to heal relationship conflict. The Chakra Healing strategies serve to heal you on all levels - spirit, mind and body. Click here to see aura of couple in love and couple in conflict. Marriage Healing/Healing Relationships: Chakras and Relationships Often relationship problems are nested within other more deep rooted issues. Chakras are like computers that store data on all the issues that we are facing. The following chakra chart analysis worksheet serves to decode that information. In doing so, it can help heal your marriage/relationship in a holistic manner. I know of no other system that can evaluate the health of a person's spirit, mind and body as comprehensively as the Chakra system. If you facing relationship problems, pay particular attention to the Heart and the Solar Plexus Chakras. What are Chakras? Chakras are entry gates of the Aura. Within the physical body resides a body double, a spiritual body, that contains the Chakras. The word Chakra in Sanskrit translates to wheel or disc. They are centers of activity that receives, assimilates and expresses life force energy. They are responsible for the person's physical, mental, and spiritual functions. They absorb and transmit energies to and from the universe, nature, celestial entities, from people even from things.
Source: Joseph Campbell, The Mythic Image (Princeton, N.J.: Princeton University Press, 1974) Chakra Chart for detecting Chakra Blocks and Imbalances The following Chakra Chart worksheet helps determine the Chakras that are blocked/imbalanced, based on your life issues and emotions. Bringing your unconscious patterns into conscious awareness is the first step to embracing it, showing it compassion and healing it, be it in the form of prayer, reiki, crystals or any other means that suits you. How to use the chakra chart 1. Examine each chakra and the emotions, traits and issues related to it. Please have a pen and paper ready, so that you can make notes, as well. 2. Check or make notes against each Chakra attribute in the Chakra Chart. Let your intuition guide you. Do not ponder for hours over each question. Use the first instinctual answer. 3. A word of caution: do not place too much emphasis on the numbers per se eg the number of positive attribute checks vs negative attribute checks. The chart only serves as a rough indicator, and as you may notice, there are more "negative" attributes than positive ones. The main objective is to detect Chakra blocks and imbalances. 4. Remedies to cleanse and balance Chakras
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Chakras and Soulmates DETAILED CHAKRA CHART ROOT CHAKRA Primary Trait/Role: Survival Location in Body: Base of Spine Planetary Energy: Saturn Level of relationship: Tribal Key First Level Negative Emotions Notes Fear Panic Anxiety Nervousness Paranoia Rigidity Dualistic Core Feelings Abundance Lack Security Insecurity Safety Vulnerability Health Sickness Gain Loss Comfort Pain Boundaries Invasion Life Death Infinite Limited Excessive Heaviness, Sluggishness, Lazy, Tired Resistance to Change, Fear of change Overeating, Obesity Hoarding Material fixation, greediness Workaholism Excessive spending Addiction to security Rigid boundaries Deficient Fear, Anxiety Resistance to structure Anorexia, Underweight Spaciness, Flightiness, Vagueness Disconnection from you body Restlessness, inability to sit still Difficulty manifesting Poor focus and discipline Financial difficulty Poor boundaries Chronic disorganization Balanced Groundedness Good Physical Health Being comfortable in your own body A sense of safety and security A sense of trust in the world Stability and solidity Right livelihood Prosperity Ability to relax and be still Presence in the here and now Issues The fear of not being able to provide the necessities of Life for oneself or one's family. The feeling that the external world is a threatening place and that you are unable to stand up for yourself or protect yourself. (This does not refer just to physical protection; it includes the fear and vulnerability that accompany human rights violations or the reality of being in a situation with no legal rights whatsoever.) The insecurity of feeling that no place is home, that you do not 'belong" anywhere. The fear that comes from not being able to trust that you can materialize your goals. The feeling that you are totally on your own, un-supported by anyone and completely alone in this world. Intuitive rating: (Scale: 1-10) balanced:_______ excessive:_______ blocked/deficient:_______ SACRAL CHAKRA (Part 1) Primary Trait/Role: Power Location in Body: Perineum Planetary Energy: Pluto Level of relationship: One-on-one Key First Level Negative Emotions Notes Powerlessness Futility Despondency Anger Rage Contempt Dualistic Core Feelings Capable Helpless Dominant Subordinate Respected Used Controlling Controlled Self-determination Manipulation Freedom Coercion Energetic Fatigued Independent Dependent Unbound Restricted by authority Excessive Sexual Addictions Obsessive attachments Addiction to stimulation Excessive mood swings Excessively sensitive Poor boundaries, invasion of others Emotional dependency Instability Deficient Rigidity in your body, beliefs, or behavior Frigidity, Fear of sex Emotional numbness or insensitivity Fear of change Lack of desire, passion or excitement Denial of pleasure Poor social skills Excessive boundaries Boredom Balanced Graceful movements Ability to embrace change Emotional intelligence Nurturance of self and others Healthy boundaries Ability to enjoy pleasure Sexual satisfaction Passion Issues Resentment resulting from being manipulated by other people. This includes the feeling of being victimized by one's circumstances, such as race, color or sex. Feeling so personally insecure that you need to manipulate other people in order to establish control levels in your life. Intuitive rating: (Scale: 1-10) balanced:_______ excessive:_______ blocked/deficient:_______ SACRAL CHAKRA (Part 2) Primary Trait/Role: Sensation Location in Body: Lower Abdomen Planetary Energy: Mars Key First Level Negative Emotions Notes Frustration Lust Humiliation Dualistic Core Feelings (concerning sex, touch,sensuality, entertainment, TV, luxury) Satisfaction Craving Indulgence Abstinence Issues The feeling that you have no power in terms of what happens to you sexually. This includes the experience of being used or abused sexually as well as the experience of being in particularly manipulative and controlling relationships. Participating in any level of dishonesty in your financial, sexual or interpersonal relationships. Feeling inadequate sexually, or having a dislike for sexual activity. This includes the stress that accompanies feelings of resentment over the sexual authority of one's partner or of the opposite sex in general as well as feelings of dislike or guilt surrounding one's own sexuality and sexual preferences. The fear of never having enough, which includes the fear of poverty. Intuitive rating: (Scale: 1-10) balanced:_______ excessive:_______ blocked/deficient:_______ SACRAL CHAKRA (Part 3) Primary Trait/Role: Nurturing Location in Body: Navel Planetary Energy: Moon Key First Level Negative Emotions Notes emotional hunger for food, drugs, smoking general emotional neediness Dualistic Core Feelings Nurtured Starved | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
